5 Shocking Details About Ali Wong And Bill Hader’s Relationship, Including Their 2025 Red Carpet Debut
The relationship between comedy powerhouses Ali Wong and Bill Hader has been one of Hollywood’s most surprising and closely-watched romances, largely because of its on-again, off-again start and their intensely private nature. Despite their efforts to keep their personal lives out of the spotlight, their professional success and a few key public moments—like a shocking 2024 Golden Globes kiss—have kept the public captivated. As of late December 2025, the couple is not only still going strong but has reached major new milestones, including co-executive producing a new project and making several high-profile red carpet appearances, definitively shutting down all previous breakup speculation.
Their journey from a brief 2022 fling to a full-blown, committed relationship in 2023 and beyond is a testament to finding love later in life, especially after high-profile divorces. The two Emmy-winning stars have become a true Hollywood power couple, combining their comedic genius and dramatic acting chops in a partnership that spans both their personal lives and their professional careers. This deep dive reveals the most current details, their complete relationship timeline, and the surprisingly romantic way Hader won Wong’s heart.
The Comedy Power Duo: Ali Wong and Bill Hader Profile
Both Ali Wong and Bill Hader are critically acclaimed, Emmy-winning figures who have defined modern comedy and dramatic television. Their professional paths, which include stand-up, sketch comedy, writing, and directing, make them a uniquely matched pair.
Ali Wong Profile
- Full Name: Alexandra Dawn Wong
- Date of Birth: April 19, 1982 (Age 43 as of late 2025)
- Place of Birth: San Francisco, California, US
- Primary Career: Comedian, Actress, Writer, Producer
- Major Works: Stand-up specials Baby Cobra, Hard Knock Wife, and Don Wong (Netflix); the film Always Be My Maybe; and the critically acclaimed Netflix series Beef, for which she won a Golden Globe and an Emmy.
- Previous Marriage: Married to Justin Hakuta from 2014 to 2022, with whom she shares two daughters.
Bill Hader Profile
- Full Name: William Thomas Hader Jr.
- Date of Birth: June 7, 1978 (Age 47 as of late 2025)
- Place of Birth: Tulsa, Oklahoma, US
- Primary Career: Actor, Comedian, Writer, Producer, Director
- Major Works: Cast member on Saturday Night Live (SNL) (2005–2013), and the creator, writer, director, and star of the HBO dark comedy series Barry, for which he won multiple Emmy Awards.
- Previous Marriage: Married to filmmaker Maggie Carey from 2006 to 2018, with whom he shares three daughters.
The Full Relationship Timeline: From Secret Fling to 2025 Red Carpet Debut
The Ali Wong and Bill Hader relationship timeline is marked by two distinct phases, a brief period in late 2022 and a serious rekindling in 2023, culminating in major public appearances throughout 2024 and 2025.
Initial Romance and Break (Late 2022)
The two comedians first began dating quietly in late 2022. This initial romance was short-lived, however, and they reportedly broke up after only a couple of months due to their demanding schedules.
The Rekindling and Public Confirmation (April 2023)
In April 2023, news broke that Ali Wong and Bill Hader had rekindled their romance and were officially back together. Unlike their first attempt, this time, the relationship stuck, and they began to be seen together more frequently in private settings, including a casual pho date in San Francisco.
The Golden Globes Kiss That Broke the Internet (January 2024)
The couple's relationship status was publicly cemented in January 2024 at the Golden Globe Awards. After Ali Wong won the award for Best Actress in a Limited Series for her work in Beef, she and Bill Hader were seen sharing a passionate kiss on camera, confirming their committed status to a global audience and immediately becoming a viral moment.
The 2025 DGA Awards Red Carpet Debut
Despite being a recognized couple for over a year, Wong and Hader are notoriously private. They finally made their long-awaited official red carpet debut at the 2025 Directors Guild of America (DGA) Awards. This appearance was a major milestone, signifying a new level of comfort and seriousness in their relationship, as they posed together for photographers for the first time at a major industry event.
Breakup Rumors and Rep Confirmation (Early 2025)
In early 2025, speculation about a breakup surfaced after Ali Wong attended the 2025 Golden Globes solo. However, a representative for Bill Hader quickly shut down the rumors, confirming that the couple was still very much together and that Hader’s absence was due to a scheduling conflict. This swift clarification reaffirmed their commitment amidst intense public scrutiny.
Creative Arts Emmys Appearance (September 2025)
Further cementing their status as a couple, Ali Wong and Bill Hader were photographed together at the 77th Creative Arts Emmy Awards in September 2025. Their continued presence together at high-profile industry events throughout the year demonstrates a strong and stable partnership moving forward.
The Romantic Twist: How Bill Hader Won Ali Wong's Heart
One of the most fascinating details of their romance is the surprisingly romantic and slightly audacious way Bill Hader pursued Ali Wong after her divorce from Justin Hakuta. Wong herself opened up about the story during a stand-up performance, revealing a side of Hader that contrasts with his often-awkward on-screen persona.
The Flowers in Europe
Ali Wong shared that while she was on tour in Europe, she was receiving an extravagant number of flowers at every stop. She initially did not know who they were from, calling the anonymous sender a "secret admirer."
The Divorce Phone Call
The true story behind the flowers was revealed to be Hader, who made a move right after hearing the news of her separation. Wong recounted the phone call where Hader confessed his feelings in a uniquely bold, yet charming, way.
Wong recalled Hader saying, "Hey, Ali. I just happened to hear the news of your divorce today, and I gotta tell you, I'm excited." This combination of directness and humor, which she described as a "true romantic" gesture, was what ultimately won her over and led to their rekindling.
A Power Couple's Future: New Projects and Milestones
Ali Wong and Bill Hader are not just navigating their new life as a couple; they are also actively collaborating and supporting each other's careers, solidifying their status as a Hollywood power couple.
Professional Collaboration
In a major professional step, the couple announced in 2025 that they are co-executive producers for Riki Lindhome’s one-woman show, “Dead Inside.” While they have voiced characters together in the past (such as in the animated series The Simpsons), this is a significant joint venture that moves their partnership behind the scenes and into a shared creative space. This collaboration is a powerful indicator of their mutual respect and commitment to working together.
Navigating the Spotlight
Both Hader and Wong have been vocal about the challenges of their public relationship, especially after their respective divorces. Wong, in particular, noted that she was embarrassed by how widespread and public the news of her marriage ending became. The couple’s decision to slowly and deliberately increase their public visibility—from the surprise kiss to the full red carpet debut at the DGA Awards—shows a careful strategy to manage the intense media scrutiny while still honoring their commitment to each other.
The future for Ali Wong and Bill Hader looks bright, balanced between their individual, highly successful careers and their joint ventures. They represent a modern Hollywood romance: private, professional, and punctuated by the kind of sharp, self-aware humor that defines both of their lives.
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